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Who Says You Can’t Learn Three Powerful Marketing Lessons From A Really Bad Personal Relationship?

Entrepreneur,(lately) have you become totally or way too jaded, simply because maybe your online marketing venture(s) in general, and or your latest blogging efforts specifically, have fallen just shy of your original, (rather lofty) expectations?

Is that possible?

Hey, it definitely does happen, and far more often than you may think and or are ready to acknowledge.

If so, not to worry, because the three, incredibly simple and potentially profitable marketing lessons, you’re about to be exposed to, will most definitely help make that particular scenario a thing of the past.

And to further add insult to injury, has or have your latest attempts at finally finding and being involved in a really fulfilling and meaningful personal relationship,with that special someone, unexpectedly hit the skids as well?

(And you’re getting more than your fair share of “I told you so’s.” 😉 )

It’s okay if it has, because often after things have eventually all panned out,you’ll find you were actually able to rid yourself of some much needed excess baggage!

Well, by the same token, would it surprise you to discover, (there are) at least three extremely powerful (not to mention) potentially profitable marketing lessons, as they directly relate to your current blogging efforts, that you can and definitely should learn from a really bad personal relationship? Let’s take a look…

So What Are These Three Incredibly Powerful Marketing Lessons Can You Learn About Blogging From A Really Bad Personal Relationship?

Entrepreneur, right out of the gate, this post in no way, is some sort of under cover attempt to play, (either) Dr.Phil or arm chair quarterback, with regards to, who you should or shouldn’t be personally involved with! 😎 That and those decisions my friend, I gladly leave totally up to you!Okay?

On the other hand, checkout these three very glaring similarities and parallels, between your current blogging efforts and the ultimate affects of them.

And how being in a really bad personal relationship, can (and so often does) have some of the exact same similarities!

(Really Important Note: Just for further clarification, and so we can all stay on the same page here!

When I (very loosely) use the extremely broad phrase, “bad personal relationship,” in no way am I referring to, (and or) attempting to down play, nor equate any type of physical and or verbal abuse, with regards to being in a not so fulfilling personal relationship!)

However, in a much broader since, you will notice some extremely interesting similarities, between some online marketers current blogging habits and how” they relate to being involved, (and or formerly) involved, in a “really bad personal relationship.”

Potentially Profitable Marketing Lessons Are Literally Everywhere!

1.) Similarity # one: Okay, so you were lucky enough, (or at least) you thought so initially, when you two first met and were just beginning to date on the regular.

Remember “how” excited and enthusiastic you were back then? You payed such close attention to the littlest things!Remember?

But just 60 -90 days into your story book “Romeo & Juliette” love tale, suddenly there are starting to be some rather obvious, (but not yet) necessarily, subtle signs that things are a definitely changing for the worst, just a bit! 😎

Case in point, (when questioned) by well meaning friends and some really close family members, about “why” you literally haven’t heard so much as peep from this person, in the last three weeks or so!

You (as is) typically the case! Simply shrug it off as no big deal and that they kinda of sort of need their space!Okay! 

Successful Entrepreneurs Definitely Know And Understand How Critically Important It Is To constantly Work On Initially Building And Sustaining Long Term Lasting Relationships! (Especially Online!)

But deep down, even your personal enthusiasm is starting to wane just a tad! Is it not?

That being said, so “what” if anything, is the so called potential blogging/marketing lesson(s) to be learned here? You so skeptically asked?

Potential marketing lesson to be learned: Entrepreneur, (without) continually beating a very dead horse here!

But honestly, you don’t think it’s really not a good thing, that you haven’t posted any fresh, “how to” problem solving content (of any kind mind you!), to your (hopefully) mobile responsive WordPress blog, for your specific target audience,in the last three weeks or more? Really?

But the fact of the matter is, you’ve been seeing this new brand person, and they haven’t reached out to you for the last three weeks or more, that’s a red flag!Did I miss something?

Funny How The Closer You Look You Can Often See Several Similarities Between Your Personal Relationships And Your Online Marketing Journey!(Have You Noticed That Too?)

2.)  Similarity # two: This next rather interesting situation,seems to piggyback nicely, with the previous points.

Okay, (so now you say) and even insist, just because this brand new person you’ve been seeing, even though it’s only been three short weeks, since you’ve had any contact with them, it’s really not a big deal!Whatsoever!

And every body around you, should just take a deep breath and a rather large “chill pill” and relax, because  the two of you really did need to slow things down just a bit!

(You came out of the gate too fast to begin with, ( and now you insist), you’re both sort of taking some much needed time to regroup, and take a much closer look before you go any farther!)

Successful And Lasting Relationships Just Like Blogging Can’t Be Left To Hit And Miss!

So you insist, there’s simply no need to rush into anything, right? Hey, that definitely makes sense!We’re all adults here!

But wait a second, (didn’t) you say, (more like) admit, you called and left a message, and or texted or emailed them about three weeks ago!

And now you’re saying, (more like) finally owning up to the fact, that they still haven’t even acknowledged your call and or text message etc!

And somehow to your way of thinking, this sort of behavior, is somehow acceptable?Really!Again, “what” if anything, is the potential blogging/marketing lesson to be learned here?

Potential marketing lesson to be learned: Ladies & gentlemen, (are you honestly) trying to suggest, that even though it’s been (at least) three weeks or more, sense one or a few of your extremely valuable readers has left a comment!

And to date, (for whatever reasons) you still haven’t even bothered to (not only) acknowledge, but respond to (either) their comment and or email inquiry?

And you somehow think this is acceptable online behavior!But you don’t think it is in your personal life!Time to do a little re-accessing of your priorities! Don’t ya think?

Really Bad Personal Relationships Can Be Extremely Helpful To Your Online Marketing Business! (Don’t You Agree?)

 3.)  Similarity # three: And finally!Okay, (you finally) stubbornly acknowledge! 😎 So maybe your( brand new personal love interest) may not readily pay close attention, to some really minor details, like promptly returning phone calls, text and or email messages, in a timely manner! 😎

You readily point out, “who” among your closest of friends and various family members, doesn’t currently have some legitimate beef, about something, the current love of their life, doesn’t do quite as well as they wish they would? To which you receive crickets! 😎

Even so entrepreneur!Don’t you think, it’s just a little bit strange, that every time you suggest, (your love interest) come hangout with some of your closest friends and or family members, to do whatever!

Successful Entrepreneurs Know And Readily Understand They Definitely Need To Do Their Fair Share Of power Networking And Or Power Socializing!

They somehow, (conveniently) always have some seemingly plausible excuse (and or) excuses, for not socializing in any shape or form (whatsoever), with anyone , outside of their very own,tightly wedded personal click!

No matter “how” hard you try to persuade them to do so!Again, “what” if anything, is the potential blogging/marketing lesson(s) to be learned from this particular situation?

Potential marketing lesson to be learned: Entrepreneur, ( new flash ), you’ve taken the time to consistently publish, fresh “how to” problem solving blog posts and or video blog post etc!

And that’s great! Your specific target audience is greatly appreciative of that!But for life of me, “why” don’t you have any of the free social share plugin buttons, somewhere on your left or right sidebars!

Can Or Are You Starting To Fully Appreciate How These Incredibly Simple Blogging Tips Can And Will Ultimately Make All The Difference!

That way, we (your) extremely loyal and dedicated readers, can immediately share your extremely valuable content, with the rest of the web!

You’re limiting your long range reach, by being so anti social!Well, I’m done!

And I sincerely hope, you can see and readily appreciate, the three potentially profitable and powerful marketing lessons, (you can) and definitely should learn, about effectively blogging.

As it clearly directly relates, to some “really bad personal relationships!” Any questions?Now as is customary during this part of our show.

Please share your extremely valuable comments (in the comments section below) that you can apply to your business, product or service in the next 30 days or less!

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4 Responses to Who Says You Can’t Learn Three Powerful Marketing Lessons From A Really Bad Personal Relationship?
  1. Hi Mark,

    Relationships can be tough lessons to learn. I have been with the same man for 32 years. and we get along beautifully. Prior to that I was with my husband for 11 years before we divorced. The dating scene can be tough so I have heard. For me, I met these men when I least expected it. I had a bad relationship in my teens that was bad. He was going out with other teens at the same time as me. It was not fun and I feel bad for you because you’re such a good person. The right woman will come into your life when you least expect it, just like me.

    Thank you for sharing, Mark and you have a wonderful weekend!

    Linda
    Linda Schrier recently posted…How To Capture Your Audience?My Profile

    • Hey thanks for your support Linda!

      But thank goodness, I’m not currently having any problems in the relationship department!LOL!

      This post wasn’t a reflection of my own personal life, I was just doing a sort generic, (common place)
      comparison is all!LOL!

      I’ve got relatives and acquaintances of close friends situations to draw from and that’s
      primarily where the loose inspiration basically came from!

      Thanks for stopping by and sharing thoughts! I definitely appreciate it!
      Mark Newsome recently posted…Five Things Extremely Savvy Entrepreneurs Sometimes Do But You Really Shouldn’t!My Profile

  2. Hi Marc,

    This is super clever. I have had a rough relationship many moons ago and hey, it taught me about forming wickedly strong attachments to people and outcomes, all of which change over time. We’re not enlightened. So we attach. But if we detach some, feel grateful, enjoy the moment and feel that everything is a bit extra, or simply, an add on to an already fulfilling life, wow does this journey become so much easier. Being grateful for your bonds versus attaching like hell to them smoothes your journey, and ditto for your blog, and for your online businesses. I do and meet and greet more for the joy of it and less because I HAVE TO, each and every day, and wow has this journey been more fun and enjoyable by the day.

    Marc, great stuff man. Keep on making those smart parallels.

    Ryan
    Ryan Biddulph recently posted…11 Fundamentals of Successful Blogging Audio Course (Plus a Bonus Audio Course)My Profile


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