So have you also noticed how, (sadly) far too many aspiring entrepreneurs, constantly put the (proverbial) cart before the horse? Say what?
Case in point. Picture this. A complete stranger walks into a local bar.
Walks up to another complete stranger.
And after engaging them in less than 15 minutes of small talk.
They pop the ‘magic’ question, and asks the total stranger, to marry them.Say what?
And sadly, expecting them to say yes.Huh? Exactly.
Of course, (right about now), you’re scratching your head, wondering ‘what’ in the world, two complete strangers in a local bar.
And one crazy enough to ask the other, to marry them. What does that totally ridiculous situation, possibly have to do with, whether aspiring entrepreneurs, will actually make it (long term) or not, correct?
So Why In The World Would A Complete Stranger Think Another Complete Stranger Would Make Such A Serious Commitment With Them So Soon!
Honestly.Is that totally ridiculous situation, any different, than you or I, contacting a major blogging influence-r, like my blogging coach and mentor, Ryan Biddulph of bloggingfromparadise.com fame.
And before he’s barely had a chance, to even read one of your blog post or watch one of your videos.
You pop the ‘magic question’. Asking if you can be a quest blogger.After all, Ryan’s blogging from paradise blog, only receives, a mere 44,000 unique visitors a month. And steadily growing. You go cat.
And because he’s been a featured quest lecture-r at the prestigious NYU (that’s New York University) @ Greenwich Village New York.
Oh yea.Let’s not forget to mention, he’s also been featured, on one of extremely high profile, billionaire Richard Branson-s blogs.Huh?
Plus he has also recently been a podcast quest, on a podcast, which currently has 1.3 million listeners.And counting.
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Now I’m guessing, you would not have a problem, with a major influence-r like that.
From time to time, providing you with a major shout out or two, correct? What a coincidence.Me either.
Of course you must fully realize and clearly appreciate, when a major influence-r such as Ryan, gives you or I a major shout out or two. (Plus links to your blog or whatever.)
Either on his primary, state of the art WordPress blog and or Facebook fanpage etc.At least some of his rabid followers, will definitely checkout your blog or podcast etc.Agreed?
But you have to ask yourself.Is any of this likely to happen, anytime soon, when you first become acquainted with a legit, major influence-r? Not likely.
So What Types Of Networking Skills Do You Currently Have Which You Can Start Effectively Utilizing Right Now?
Some of you, (no doubt) are already aware. Ryan and I, have literally been blog commenting buddies for years.
It was only after, (I and) so many others, started to consistently choke, (off) the proverbial smoke, he left, from his meteoric rise, to mega rock star, and cult like blogging status.
Then it only made sense, for me and a ton of others, to start paying far more attention to what he freely shares, than the other way around!
BTW, this leads nicely, into another critically important, long term success principle. There’s an old saying, some of you have definitely already heard.
Since the good lord, has given you,(us) two ears and only one mouth. This is the ratio, both professionals and successful entrepreneurs use them.
You Can Either Learn To Attract Or Repel Success! (The Choice Is Definitely Yours!)
And call it, (or consider it) a coincidence. If you like.But it’s also the proven ratio, successful entrepreneurs like Ryan, (and ) aspiring entrepreneurs such as yourself should definitely follow all the way to success.
When it comes, to how much giving, (read that as value), you should definitely and consistently be providing, versus how much you’re asking to receive.
That’s your winning ratio.In fact, (I’ll gladly) let you in on a sort of, (extremely) well kept secret.
If (for whatever) reasons, you’re currently struggling. Take a really hard look at, how much asking you’re currently doing. Versus how much ‘true’ giving,(read that as) service to your target audience you’re, currently providing.
Are you sensing a bit of a gap between the two mind sets?
And your honest answers will definitely tell, where you probably need some success, mind set adjusting, asap.
Hopefully, this particular blog post,along with accompanying links and the accompanying video, (freely) being shared, by my coach and mentor Ryan Biddulph, has helped you discover, why and how, so many aspiring entrepreneurs, whined up putting the cart before the horse.
And how you can and definitely should, avoid this all too common situation, happening to you. Don’t you agree?
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Mark you rock buddy! Thank you! We need be patient, persistent and generous but wow, if you stick to the basics over years, you cannot help but succeed. It will happen. Has to happen. As inevitable as night following day, when you see it through.Thanks again my friend.
Your totally awesome results speak volumes to it coach!
Thank goodness there is no magic or easy buttons
to be found here!LOL!
You’ve gotta go through it to get to it!
And your results, are proof positive, what it takes,
to start and maintain a certain synergy of positive results!
You and others have already blazed the trails and let behind
plenty of applicable clues! Thank you!
Because you and other extremely dedicated and dynamic entrepreneurs,
have left a path. All we need is follow your lead.
Thanks s much for stopping by and sharing real world insights coach!
I truly appreciate it!
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